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'Eat Pray Love' author Elizabeth Gilbert mourns death of partner Rayya Elias

Two years after taking her same-sex relationship public, Eat Pray Love author Elizabeth Gilbert is mourning the death of her partner, Rayya Elias.

"I would narrate you to rest in accord, but I know that you always found peace boring," she wrote overnight Thursday on Instagram. "May you rest in excitement. I will always love you."

Elias, 57, a fellow author, songwriter and short filmmaker, was diagnosed with pancreatic and liver cancer in , prompting Gilbert, now 48, to realize the depth of her feelings for her best ally of 15 years. That summer, she divorced her husband of 12 years, Jose Nunes (portrayed by Javier Bardem in the  film adaptation of Eat Pray Love) to be with Elias.

"Death — or the prospect of death — has a way of clearing away everything that is not authentic, and in that space of stark and utter realness," Gilbert wrote in a  Facebook display . "I was faced with this truth: I do not merely love Rayya; I am in love with Rayya. And I have no more time for denying that truth."

She continued,

Why I Rejected Elizabeth Gilbert's Vision of Being and Love

I examine Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat, Pray, Love in the bath. A neighbor of mine recommended it right after I had my second child. My older daughter had just turned two, and my neighbor told me I could use some “me time.” I had returned to work after six weeks of maternity quit, though neither my body nor my sleep habits had fully recovered. So “me time” seemed appreciate a decent enough idea.

And so I followed Gilbert as she described her unfulfilling marriage and her divorce. I followed her to Italy as she gorged herself on the most delicious sounding foods. I followed her to India as she searched for inner spiritual enlightenment, and I followed her to Bali where she had lots of steamy sex. For many women, the book allowed them a kind of fantasy life where they could focus solely on their own physical, emotional, and spiritual needs for an extended period of second. It was like taking a sabbatical from life.

What would we do with that kind of time? We’re not talking about a week on t

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'Eat Pray Love' author Elizabeth Gilbert reveals lesbian love

It's been a momentous summer for Eat Pray Love author Elizabeth Gilbert  — worthy of a sequel to that memoir, in fact.

In early July, she announced she was divorcing her second husband, whom she met at the end of the book; he was played by Javier Bardem in the film adaptation.

On Wednesday, she went public with even bigger news: She's in passion with Rayya Elias, her top friend of 15 years, whom she has frequently mentioned on her social media accounts.

"For those of you who are doing the math here, and who are wondering if this situation is why my marriage came to an end this spring, the simple answer is yes," she said in a Facebook post published Wednesday. "This summer has been an essential period of silence, healing, and incubation for us. I have needed that hour, and I've been grateful to have it. But summer is over.  I have work to undertake in the world — work that I can't put off anymore."

Elizabeth Gilbert splits from man she met at end of 'Eat Pray Love'

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